We've been married for five years and still don't have a child ...... Our relationship is still good, and my wife has reached the age of pregnancy, so I've been thinking about having a child. My husband and I discussed it and decided to abstain from sex for a month to save up the desire to wait until the end of the month when my wife is ovulating, and then release the suppressed desire to have sex more intensely than usual. ...... We have been doing this cycle every month. ......